Last weekend my Dad visited Columbia for a few days after a
business trip to the States. Naturally, I took him to the many exciting sites
that Columbia has to offer, including; The State House, the Congaree River Walk
and the infamous William Brice Football Stadium.
Fresh from the land where chips are crisps and gym
memberships cost up to a months rent, I was excited to see his reaction to
campus life in America. Of course he thought the food was amazing as stuffed croissants, waffles covered in maple syrup and
whipped cream, burgers the size of Frisbees’, Charbroiled Ribeye steaks, and French
fries were on the menu all weekend long. Watching him was like pressing re-wind
on life’s remote control as I got to see his jaw drop and eyes widen at all the
same things that seemed strange and exciting to me when I first arrived.
For the Homecoming game against Mississippi State I bought
two tickets in the lower deck section so that my Dad could get a real feel for
College Football. Decked out in a garnet USC t-shirt with a Bloody Mary before
midday, Dad was ready to embrace the wall of noise which exudes from the
Stadium. With weather matching that of a beautiful mid-summer’s day back at
home, I couldn’t quite believe that we are now in November! Both of us caught
the sun, and I can safely say that it’s the first time I’ve been sunburnt in ‘Winter’.
But I’m not complaining! These warmer climates are definitely welcomed!
Having my Dad visit made me realise how lucky I am to get
the opportunity to study abroad. The school spirit here never fails to amaze
me. I have met some incredible, interesting and diverse people in the past
three months, and I’ve made friendships which will last a lifetime. Time is
doing a really weird thing where it feels like I’ve been here forever but at
the same time it’s going really quickly. Soon enough it will be Christmas and I’ll
have to start thinking about plans for when I return to London in the summer! My alter ego is screaming 'please not adult life yet!'
Overall, it was a short but much needed visit, and having a
piece of home has definitely helped me get over the mid-term blues. Southern
hospitality was out in full force over the weekend, while I’m still not used to
being addressed as ‘Ma’am’, Dad certainly enjoyed being referred to as ‘Sir’.
The people really are as sweet as the tea… well, at least most of them are… One
exception to the rule was some rude guy in his SUV imagining he was ‘King of
the Vista’. After the Football game, I wanted to take my Dad out to the Blue
Marlin restaurant in town for dinner, but as it was the weekend parking spots were
scarce. After driving around the block a couple of times, I saw a parked car
put on its reversing lights and told Dad to indicate for the space. But low and
behold, some absolute douche of a guy in a massive 4x4 comes up parallel to our
car, rolls down his window and proceeds to talk at my Dad telling him that the
space is his. I would continue by listing the stream of bad-mouth words that
came to mind, but I’m not sure my blog is the most appropriate place to do so.
Anyway, classy as ever, my Dad told the boy to ‘show some American hospitality’
and swiftly reversed straight into the space that we had previously been
indicating for. Well you know what they say about guys who drive massive
trucks, they do it for an ego boost, the bigger the truck the smaller the…